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Dealing with “Haters”

Dealing with “Haters”

A hater can be anyone. A family member, a friend, a colleague, a teacher, a boss, or some random person you meet on the street or the Internet. People who were friends forever can suddenly be haters. You HAVE to have the tools to deal with it.
Secret !!~~It Is all bout them !!~  Whoever hates, is also afraid of something.
It’s none of my business why someone thinks something of me. Something is going on in there life that is bring up the Anger and Projecting  there own fears on you !!~~
It is also about you !!~~ you get defensive why because they may be  right!!~~ make a note of it too your self This makes it easier to identify and deal with and maybe even learn something about yourself.
24 Hour Rule works in almost every case. If you never respond to the initial attack, it goes away in 24 hours.
For every creative thing you do: 1/3 will love you, 1/3 will hate you, and 1/3 won’t care.
Which means you should do what you love. You should do the best you can. You should try to do the things that will help you improve every day. And when bad comments come, just put them in that 1/3 bucket where it belongs.
Don’t speak to people who are bad for you. Let them do their thing.
Hating is even more addictive so imagine how hard it is to change someone’s mind. Facts don’t matter. Defending yourself makes it worse.
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IGNORE THEM
TAKE IT WITH A GRAIN OF SALT
DON’T RETALIATE
DON’T APOLOGIZE
DON’T TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE
ADORE THEM
HATERS GONNA HATE

Negative people will make you grow >>>>Whenever a “hater” becomes active in the energy of their negativity toward you, this becomes your time for growth.
They secretly want to be like you>>> When a person becomes envious of another, it is always because they have admired a beloved trait in that person.
They are your success indicators. >>> chances are that you are a shining star and the world has started to take notice.
They are your teachers. >>> They will teach us to love ourselves, cause us to muster our strength and grow far beyond our perceived shortcomings.
Free yourself of judgment>>>  Attempt to see their actions as neither good or bad,  just background chatter of their internal struggle that has little to do with you and everything to do with them. Try not to take their criticisms personally.
Lead with compassion.>>>  Realize that their negativity probably affects their relationships and their ability to transform and receive true inner wisdom.
Keep your eyes on the road>>> Stay grounded on your path and continue to surround yourself with people who build you up.
Forgive.>>> Forgive these people for raining on your parade and forgive yourself for forgetting your umbrella.

“It is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you are not.” ~ Andre Gide

 

 

No matter what you do in life, chances are you're going to encounter someone who wants to bring you down. Oprah and Steve Harvey have encountered their share of haters and gotten life-changing advice about not to let the haters get them down. In the video above, Oprah recalls the wisdom Dr. Maya Angelou gave to her. “In the beginning it used to bother me so much when people would talk about me,” Oprah says. “She used to say to me, ‘Baby, those people can't hold a candle to the light that God already has shining on your face.'” Then, Steve shares why Tyler Perry told him responding to social media trolls would only exacerbate the problem.

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“The final proof of greatness lies in being about to endure criticism without resentment.” ~Elbert Hubbard 

I realized that no matter what I did, there would people in this world who would seethe on the inside, just because I was who I was.

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16 Comments

  1. Wow, very interesting post, thanks for referencing it back to “tiny buddha”, there lies another interesting story. The way I see “haters” is like the way I see bullies. Most are full of “hot air” and they use this “hot air” to make them look good by pulling other people down. Thanks for sharing…

    • sandra copeland

      March 20, 2016 at 7:50 AM

      Thank you Keith for stopping by !!~ I agree they are bully needing to take a look at themselves Have a great Sunday

  2. Love the comment Steve made about when they write it’s a blog when you respond it’s a press conference…. great post Sandraji… thanks for sharing this

  3. Great post Sandra – not trying to please everyone is a big one! Not always easy, but super important.

  4. Great post!! Haters and doubters are more worried about their abilities then actually what you are going to achieve! They dont want to be left behind! Thanks for sharing!

  5. Never knew about the 24 hour rule. Thanks for sharing 🙂

    Dr. LIsa

    • sandra copeland

      March 21, 2016 at 7:29 AM

      Good Morning Dr.lisa and thank you for stopping by >> 🙂 the 24 hour rule is really cool !!~

  6. Great post Sandra..

    Perfect topic to discuss.. Many will find great value in this post as I have!!

    Thank you for sharing 😀

    • sandra copeland

      March 21, 2016 at 7:28 AM

      Good Morning Amanda thank you soo much for stopping by ♥♥ much appreciate your feed back !!~~

  7. awesome post. I like the idea of the buckets never seen it that way. luv it! thanks for sharing

  8. Thanks Sandraji Lynn,,,,I’ve struggled over trying to tell people what I do…. those that I know wouldn’t understand.(Old work partners and high school classmates).. over the past few months, I’ve just taken an “I don’t care” approach… It’s MY BUSINESS and I’m going to make it work. That’s it…

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